Thursday, 28 November 2013

Third Sunday of Advent - 15.12.2013


FATHER LIAM SAYS:  J B Morton (Beachcomber) loved Sussex.  While living in Rodmell, between Lewes and Newhaven, he met Peter Belloc, the second son of Hilaire Belloc.  They were to be close friends until Peter’s death while on active service in 1941.  At Christmas time in 1922 Morton was delighted when Peter invited him to his parent’s home in Shipley, near West Grinstead.  Morton was a great admirer of Hilaire Belloc’s writings.  Hilaire was fifty-two at this time and had already written about seventy books.  Shaking hands, with a low bow, he said to Morton: ‘what will you drink, Mr Martin?’ and later ‘Mr Martin, I must know your plans.  You can stay as long as you like, or go as soon as you like, but I must know your plans.’  Morton wrote of him: ‘The black clothes, black tie and old-fashioned stiff stick-up collar made him look like a Frenchman of my boyhood.  But the ruddy complexion and the broad, square shoulders and massive body gave him the air of an English farmer.’

Hilaire Belloc, in fact, was born near Paris in 1870 and his family moved to England in 1872 during the Franco-Prussian War.  He was educated at the Oratory School in Birmingham under John Henry Newman, later Cardinal and now Blessed.  He studied at Oxford and did military service in the French Army and was a Liberal MP for South Salford (1906-10).  He was a close friend of G K Chesterton – both enormous Roman Catholic apologists.  Hilaire’s wife, Elodie, died in 1914 leaving him five children to bring up.  He kept her room as a shrine, making the Sign of the Cross on the always locked door as he passed it and wore black for the rest of his life.

This is Belloc’s description of Christmas when he was living near West Grinstead after the war in which his son Peter was killed.  The chapel in which the three Masses of Christmas were said may have been in the school nearby where a Religious Order ran a Residential School for disadvantaged children.  ‘The people of the house, when they have dined, and their guests, with the priest who is to say Mass for them, sit up to near midnight.  There is brought in a very large log of oak...This log of oak is the Christmas or Yule log, and the rule is that it must be too heavy for one man to lift; so two men come, bringing it from outside, the master of the house and his servant.  They cast it down upon the fire in the great hearth of the dining room, and the superstition is that, if it burns all night and is found still smouldering in the morning, the home will be prosperous for the coming year.

With that they go up to the chapel, and there the three night Masses are said, one after the other, and those of the household take their Communion.  Next morning they sleep late, and the great Christmas dinner is at midday.  It is turkey and plum pudding, with holly on it and everything conventional and therefore satisfactory, is done.  Crackers are pulled, the brandy is lit and poured over the pudding till the holly crackles in the flame and the curtains are drawn a moment, that the flames be seen.  This Christmas feast, so great that it may be said almost to fill the day, they may reprove who will, but for my part I applaud....  This house where such good things are done year by year has suffered all the things that every age has suffered.  It has known the sudden separation of wife and husband, the sudden fall of young men under arms who will never more come home, the scattering of the living and their precarious return, the increase and the loss of fortune, all those terrors and all those lessening and halting and failures of hope which make up the life of a man.  But its Christmas binds it to its own past and promises its future, making the house an undying thing of which those subject to mortality within it are members, sharing in its continuous survival.’

Let us give the last word to John Betjeman (1906-1984) who was knighted in 1969 and became Poet Laureate in 1972.

Advent 1955 (Abridged)                                               

For now we feel the world spin round                            
On some momentous journey bound –                          
Journey to what? to whom? to where?                           
The Advent bells call out ‘Prepare,                                
Your world is journeying to the birth                              
Of God made Man for us on earth.’                               
And how, in fact, do we prepare                               
For the great day that waits us there -                            
                                                                                    
The twenty-fifth day of December                                               
The birth of Christ? For some it means                     
An interchange of hunting scenes                                  
On coloured cards.  And I remember
Last year I sent out twenty yards,
Laid end to end, of Christmas cards
To people that I scarcely know -
They’d sent a card to me, and so
I had to send one back.  Oh dear!
Is this a form of Christmas cheer?
 
The only cards that really count                         
Are that extremely small amount
From real friends who keep in touch
And are not rich but love us much.
Some ways indeed are very odd
By which we hail the birth of God.                     
‘The time draws near the birth of Christ’,
A present that cannot be price  
Given two thousand years ago.
Yet if God had not given so                  
He still would be a distant stranger
And not the Baby in the manger.